It's possible he may have s # xual fantasies about you. He may have s # xual fantasies about a nebulous and nonexistent brother-sister unit. He may just have been really horny and that happened to be the first thing he found that scratched his itch on that particular day because the actress was attractive or engaged in the act that really excited him.
· If you MUST mention it, which is a judgment call only you can make, ask him if there's something you need to know. Try to do this without judging him, but while still maintaining firm boundaries.
· If there is something you need to know, then you should further find out if this is something he has any intention of acting on.
· If his answers give you a reason to believe he's hiding something that alarms you, you should go to your parents and to hell with what I wrote about things I would NOT do. He and / or you and / or the family may need counseling to get this under control before it becomes a problem.
Bottom line: Only you can know what's best for you in this situation, but the fact he was watching porn with that particular content is not presumptive evidence of anything at all except for the fact that he was watching a heteros # xual s # x act . Even if the content was depicted as taboo (and I'll lay you 20: 1 odds say it was faked anyway by paid actors behaving like "amateurs"), he may not have noticed or the reason he chose that video may have been completely irrelevant to the actual reason he was watching it. If his behavior toward you is or becomes inappropriate, that's one thing. If he acts in every respect like a brother should to you, what he chooses to watch for s # xual gratification is as much your business as what you do for your own pleasure is his.
Still, though, if it really makes you uncomfortable, take it up with him and make sure he knows you're not mad ... but you're also not interested in helping him live that particular dream.
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